tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5790433336871030378.post3755867867928663326..comments2023-05-18T05:28:35.156-05:00Comments on Robin's Red Bottom: March? Already?Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02489953933171660741noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5790433336871030378.post-60780407630514260552008-03-15T12:04:00.000-05:002008-03-15T12:04:00.000-05:00Hi Grace,Glad you've stopped by :)No spankings -- ...Hi Grace,<BR/>Glad you've stopped by :)<BR/>No spankings -- beyond the whole trust issue, I'm just not in the mood for something like that (yes, I do think about them, but with the way things are right now, I just can't think about actually having one -- convoluted, but there you go).<BR/>Thanks for the kind thoughts and hugs.<BR/>RobinRobinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05074544933088994248noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5790433336871030378.post-53842171688048937552008-03-12T12:22:00.000-05:002008-03-12T12:22:00.000-05:00Dear Robin,I'm am so terribly sorry for all that h...Dear Robin,<BR/><BR/>I'm am so terribly sorry for all that has been going on in your life right now. I'm not sure why, but I didn't get any updates on my new computer and I forgot to stop by.<BR/><BR/>I'm glad your trying to work it out, but it's awfully hard when someone is so hateful. I would steer clear of spanking until you know for sure that you can still trust him with your bottom. <BR/><BR/>Hope things continue in a positive way.<BR/><BR/>HUGS!<BR/>gracegracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17341179673514109376noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5790433336871030378.post-34104886369221233152008-03-10T18:47:00.000-05:002008-03-10T18:47:00.000-05:00Hi John,Thanks for the hope. I know being stressed...Hi John,<BR/>Thanks for the hope. I know being stressed can lead to these outbursts, so I've tried to be understanding, but he's got to stop attacking us when he's stressed by other things. This is exactly why I want him to get into some counselling -- if he needs more than counselling (i.e. psychiatric therapy), I think he's more likely to listen when someone else suggest it, other than me. <BR/>So I'm trying to be hopeful, but it's not always easy...<BR/>Thanks again.<BR/>RobinRobinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05074544933088994248noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5790433336871030378.post-75580163207277710642008-03-10T02:49:00.000-05:002008-03-10T02:49:00.000-05:00Don't think everything is lost. He must be under a...Don't think everything is lost. He must be under a lot of stress and probably needs understanding, care , attention and the help of a professional. Not easy, though. Twenty years ago I behaved in the same way.Counseling didn't help very much. But I got the help of an excellent psychiatrist who made me thinking about things important in lyfe. Seems he likes to destroy everything you build together. It's something you don't want to but have too, don't know why. BTW, we are still together and happier than ever before...johnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13576420604075920340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5790433336871030378.post-47230833508426496422008-03-04T20:52:00.000-06:002008-03-04T20:52:00.000-06:00Hi Sara,Thank you for your comment. I really don't...Hi Sara,<BR/>Thank you for your comment. I really don't think he's bi-polar (at least as I understand bi-polar). I think it's more an inability to handle stress and a lack of anger management skills. But it is something to think about.<BR/>RobinRobinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05074544933088994248noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5790433336871030378.post-13780909973719505822008-03-03T18:21:00.000-06:002008-03-03T18:21:00.000-06:00"He has almost a Jekyll-Hyde thing going on when h..."He has almost a Jekyll-Hyde thing going on when he gets so angry"<BR/><BR/>Robin, I have never posted here before, but feel moved to do so now. Please take this within context. It is from a therapist who does not know you, your husband, or your marriage. Ask the therapist to refer him to a good psychiatrist to be evaluated for bi-polar. Your 'Jekyll-Hyde' comment is typical of the kind of comments spouses make living with the condition undiagnosed. I wish you both the best. SaraAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com